Love & Forgiveness to the Rescue

It is a dream comes true for a business operator when customers steadily stream into your café as you begin operations. Diners give their thumbs-up for the cuisine served and soak in the café’s ambience. It is an encouraging start.

One day, while the symphony of forks and spoons were clanging away at the dining hall, a different drama was unfolding in the kitchen with two main actors – the chefs. One wants to garner respect from the other staff by virtue of perceived seniority because he helped out at the time of setting up the café. The other acts like a ‘prima donna’ because he thinks he has better culinary skills and demands others to follow his instructions. When ‘insecurity’ and ‘prima donna’ dance on the same stage, they are bound to step on one another’s toes. The stage is primed for a battle of egos. So when egos constantly brush against each other, the friction inevitably sparks off into physical blows. Things came to a head one day when one of them actually wielded a chopper to intimidate the other. Woo, this is no play-acting any longer. The ‘stage curtain’ must come down hard and fast on the drama.

As a business operator, how would you react or what would Sara, the cafe owner do in this case? Shaken and upset, naturally. In the past when there were minor rows, she would let them off lightly without reprimanding. This time, she felt that they might have mistaken her to be a softie; she decided to send one home to separate them and gave the other ‘if looks could kill’ silent treatment and refused to talk to him while she figured out the next course of action.

Even though it was a Saturday which is supposedly to be a busy day, after the incident the café was dead silent except for only a few walk-ins and they did not stay. It was so silent that even a pin-drop could be heard - the cash register went mute for the rest of the day! Business completely ground to a halt. Eventually late in the evening, a family of four walked in but they also left immediately.

Being an energy practitioner, Sara suspected it could be an energy issue and requested HG geomancers to investigate. This is such an apparent aftermath of an aggressive outburst. Our archive of cases has repeatedly shown through the energy imprints that human action and thoughts impact the environment. How does that happen? Fundamentally, everything is energy and has an energy field surrounding it. An environment is an energy field, we are an energy field, our thoughtforms are an energy field, etc. vibrating at different frequency. When both energy fields come together or merge, one can affect another. To illustrate this dynamic at work, a common example is where we feel drained after spending time with someone who is very negative and whines about everything.

So, an aggressive outburst indicates the explosion of negative energy in the form of unseen ‘arrows’ shooting aimlessly in the environment and hurt any beings (both seen and unseen) exposed to this harmful field. We need to be mindful that humans are not the only beings existing on this plane. The unseen beings are also life forms existing in different dimensions but sharing the same space with us. And these unseen beings are very sensitive and at the same time can be vulnerable. Thus the harmful frequencies from the unconscious behavior of humans will hurt them. Even though unspoken, Sara’s hostility towards the errant chef just as equally mega-dosed the negative impact on the environment. Is it therefore any wonder that all these unprocessed negative energy imprints would drive potential customers away? While energy cannot be seen, it can be felt e.g. when you enter a room where a heated argument has occurred, the energy of the place may feel heavy, prickly and make you feel uncomfortable being there. So, without consciously understanding why, one wouldn’t want to dine in a place that feels uncomfortable energetically.

So, events in our external world are always presenting an excellent opportunity for us, as practitioners, to apply the three principles. In this instance, how does one proceed? First and foremost, one must always maintain the CLT consciousness by not reacting as an ordinary lay person without the CLT teaching. Instead of justifying, “It is alright for me to be shaken or upset under exceptional circumstances”, one must try to elevate from that mindset. One should remind oneself that “I should not respond in the same manner as before.” As a practitioner when you react, you absorb the negative frequency and allow it to lodge in your field and destabilise you. You will then become a launching pad for harmful energies.

To transmute the situation, in the case of Sara, she was advised to drop her hostile stance against the errant chef. Doing that is not condoning his actions. Who is right or wrong is not as important as to stop imprinting more negative vibes in the environment and energetically affecting those working in the café and deter potential customers from coming in. The most important thing to do is - to send him love and forgive him for his ignorance. Doing that, she is at the same time loving and forgiving herself. Self-love is not to hurt oneself emotionally and physically by being upset and angry. When we fall into such a state, our body constricts, our heart pounds, our blood pressure shoots up, our energy leaks and our field shrinks. But when we do not attach our feelings to what happens; good or bad, we will not be affected by externally-induced events. Therefore, when we express self-love, we are essentially strengthening our selves because we do not permit ourself to be destabilised by events orbiting around us. By guarding our field would hence in turn not affect others and the environment. Staying balanced is thus the key.

Sending love and forgiveness produced an immediate result – a first-hand experience which no amount of sharing can convince as effectively. To quote in her own words, “Yes it is frightening. After you told me to send love and forgiveness to him, I did so. The family of four, who walked in earlier and went off, just came back for dinner.” After enjoying a hearty meal and complimenting the food, this time they left feeling very satisfied.

The impact of this episode and Sara’s subsequent action clearly confirms our understanding of how human actions can negatively imprint on the environment. When it is serious, the energy will remain and will not dissipate. Even though no one is visibly injured, other sentient beings not visible to the naked eye but being in the same environment (which is effectively a shared field), are hurt. Also, it is not only physical aggression that hurts, even passive aggression such as Sara’s silent treatment towards the chef could inflict harm. By reacting in the manner she did, she was compounding the toxic cocktail of negative energies already present in the environment. As everything is energy, whether animate or inanimate, vibrating at different frequency, every single thought, emotion or action carries the potential of positive or negative impact. Therefore a thought or emotion even though it is not expressed can inflict harm to another person or the environment. In this episode, the aggressive exchange between the chefs has negatively doused the environment and Sara’s silent hostility adds fuel to the smouldering fire. One of the governing laws of nature is that the environment is constantly seeking a balance, constantly doing healing. Healing here means balancing the full spectrum of minerals. When love is expressed there is a full spectrum of minerals. Therefore expressing love and forgiveness by Sara rescued the situation because the energy of love displaces the negative energy and draws in the positive - the return of the customers. This helps to stem further damage.

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